Pam Evans is Interviewed about When the Dalai Lama Came to Tea

When the Dalai Lama Came to Tea – A Story for Children

Published on January 27, 2019 in Art/Authors & Books/Faith/Interview/Spirituality  by Debbie Elliott

Pam Evans’ new book ‘When the Dalai Lama Came to Tea’ is a delightful book for children, illustrated by Elly Morgan. It introduces the Dalai Lama and spirituality to a young audience through storytelling and the book has His Holiness’s approval and blessings.

Pam is the founder of the Peace Mala, a worldwide organisation devoted to interfaith dialogue regarding peace amongst all communities and to contribute to global education. The organisation also abides by the Golden Rule: ‘Treat others as you would wish them to treat you.’ More information about Peace Mala can be found here-

The Sunday Tribune spoke to Pam Evans about her new book.

TST: Tell me about your new book ‘When the Dalai Lama Came to Tea’.

Pam Evans: “This little story came out of the most astonishing dream I have ever experienced.  I rarely remember my dreams, so this was especially unusual and very startling.   It was during the summer of 1993 when I had been walking in the mountains of Snowdonia, North Wales with an old college friend.  She’d told me that the mountains possessed great power because they’d existed long before human beings and that by walking in them, we would receive some of their energy. I didn’t think much of what she said at the time – she often said unusual things.

We were staying at the old school house in Llanrug, not far from Caernarvon.  One morning I woke shortly after dawn with a dream so vivid that I almost leapt out of my bed- The Dalai Lama had visited my mother’s home in Gorseinon, South Wales and the most extraordinary things had happened. That my deceased father and uncle were also in the dream added to the strangeness. Most astonishing of all was the levitation!

I waited until my friend woke, then knocked on her bedroom door.  When I told her about my dream, she looked at me as if I was mad, then burst out laughing.  Immediately something told me to ‘not let go of the story’ but to use it and write a story for children.  I also realised that I would somehow have to get it to His Holiness (The Dalai Lama) for his approval. Immediately after breakfast I asked my friend if she could find some scrap paper and a pencil and leave me…which she did.

The process of writing the story was very strange. I did not have to think what to write. It just flowed…almost like automatic writing, across the pages.  It did not take long and when my friend returned, I asked her to sit in a chair and listen to the story and tell me if it worked. She taught in a primary school in Liverpool, so that was helpful.”

TST: The illustrations are a delight; can you tell me about the artist?

PE: “When I returned to school in the September, I approached Elly Morgan who was Head of the Art Department in the comprehensive school where I taught.  I told her what had happened. Elly was deeply spiritual and a lovely person. She explained that her medium was glass and ceramics, not fine art or drawing and painting, and that maybe I should find someone else. I asked her if she would please read the story anyway and see how she felt. Three days passed and she said nothing.  I thought that perhaps she didn’t like it.  Then she came dashing to me in an excited state, said she’d sat under the large tree in her garden to read it and that she’d be delighted to give it a go. She asked me for some photos of His Holiness and anything on Tibet that would help her get a ‘feel’ for the drawings.  She made one request; that she could draw His Holiness arriving in a Beetle Volkswagen (She was a huge fan of them).  I said, “Of course – but it must be yellow and open top!”  I have no idea why I said that.

When the drawings were completed, we then had to travel to the College of Art in Trinity College Carmarthen to get them photocopied.  Everything was such a palaver in those days. After that I approached La Rim Buddhist Centre in Raglan and asked if I could see the Venerable Geshe Damcho Yonten about the story and whether or not there was a chance he could get it to His Holiness.  Geshe-la had escaped from Tibet with His Holiness, so there was a strong connection.  Geshe-la was also my first Buddhist teacher.  When I met Geshe-la to show him the story, I’d never seen him look so serious.  He flicked through the book three times and missed the drawing of the levitation completely.  I must say I was rather relieved as I didn’t know how he’d react to it.  He said it looked like a nice story and that he’d do his best.”

TST: What inspired you to write this book?

PE: “I was inspired to write the story because something told me to ‘not let it go’ and to ‘use it for children‘.   I am also a huge fan of His Holiness and the fact that he came to me so vividly in a dream was a big influence.  I wanted children to know about him and Tibet.  So, here was my opportunity.”

TST: There is an element of magic to it, welsh magic, I should add, and you make a connection between Wales and Tibet, two very magical countries, can you comment on that please.

Pam Evans: “Yes, this is magical.  Anyone who has studied the history of Tibet will also be aware of the incredible magic of esoteric Buddhism and the stories of Guru Rinpoche (Padmasambhava).  In Wales there is also a lot of magic in our legends, the stories of the Mabinogi, Merlin, and the Druids who were the ancient priests of our past.  Who knows what actually happened to me in the mountains of Snowdonia and the astral dream world I entered on that unforgettable morning?  Roald Dahl said, “Those who do not believe in magic will never find it”.  Well I think I found some magic with this.

One thing about Elly’s drawing for the book cover that really strikes me are the rainbows reaching down to the hands of His Holiness. I did not ask her to do that.   It’s amazing that years later, the double rainbow design for the Peace Mala bracelet came to me in the aftermath of 9/11 and His Holiness was the first person to endorse the concept and vision of this project for world peace! Within months of receiving the letter form HH secretary, Lord Ennals (now deceased) and Joanna Lumley showed enthusiastic support for the book’s publication.

This little book for children received the blessing of His Holiness, The Dalai Lama to publish. When I was still teaching, I used the book with my Year 7 pupils who loved it.

Finally, it is now available on Amazon Kindle at £2.99.   All proceeds raised go directly to the Peace Mala educational project for world peace. This little story not only gives a good introduction to His Holiness, but also Buddhism, Tibet, and the story’s link with Wales.”

The book ‘When the Dalai Lama came to Tea’ can be purchased here

All proceeds go to Peace Mala.

1 Comment on "Pam Evans is Interviewed about When the Dalai Lama Came to Tea"

  1. This story has now been read to many children by parents, grandparents and teachers in our Peace Mala schools. The reviews on Amazon are very pleasing. Trusting it will raise awareness of His Holiness, the people of Tibet and Tibetan Buddhism.

    Thank you to everyone who has purchased the book so far. All proceeds go to the Peace Mala educational charity.

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